Sunday, February 19, 2012

Gracie: Choosing Friends

You may not think that this is something that is high on the "IMPORTANT" list, but, oh, trust me, it is.
When you pick who your friends are, it's like picking your future. Will you take this road or this road? Now, sometimes you CAN predict what will become of your friend.  Here are a 2 VERY important ways that you COULD see what your friend is like... later on:

1. You could take a nice look at them... maybe their clothes. If they are wearing a giant purple skirt with a skinny T-shirt,  you can be sure that they're those fun, outgoing friends. Sometimes your friends will wear some fancy-shamancy clothes to make themselves feel pretty or something. It's your choice once you realize what they are like. Do you want that outgoing friend, that shy one, that smart one, or maybe that pretty and popular one?

2. Will they be by your side at all times? It matters. Do they seem to have a wish for MANY friends, and always want "back-up" friends? If that is the case, then no, they really won't stay by your side. They might WANT to, but when they get backup friends, that means that 1, they doubt you or 2, they think that YOU won't be by their side..... If they seem to always want to be with you, or seem to admire you, you can pretty much say that they will stick with you. Now, there are exceptions (myself knowing one).

Sometimes it's too late and that "friend" has already told some people all those secret secrets that you only told them because of the fact that they seemed trustworthy and had this icy stare that could make a statue give in and decide to walk because she told it to. Now, when that happens you want to either ignore them, or tell them how mad you are at them. This is the #1 thing to do, usually. Now, I, for one, am always realizing a little TOO late when my friends are not really called friends, but that-moron-that-can't-seem-to-stop-being-a-moron. Yeah.. not good. So, it's always good to choose wisely and DON'T GIVE OUT ANY SECRETS.
My friends that can be mean, I know would never give out my secrets to my haters, but you know what, if you really trust them, tell them something (that you don't mind giving out) and see if they spread it. That  is my FAVORITE test. So few pass it, but when they do, you celebrate. :)



Sometimes when you befriend somebody, they seem harmless. They probably were at the time, but when you see them changing in front of your very eyes, make sure that your doing all you can to say "I'm sorry, but I feel like your changing right in front of my eyes, like your a loved one turning into a monster."


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