Evy: Friend Fights

It's happened to all of us: we've gotten into an argument with a friend over nothing and it explodes into a lifetime rivalry. None of us want to lose good friends because both of us are too stubborn to admit that we're wrong or to give in, so here are some tips to not only prevent friend fights but also deal with them properly: TO PREVENT - 1. To keep a good friendship you need to listen to one another. Never push away someone else especially when they're just trying to help. Be levelheaded to avoid arguments. 2. Keep it real but friendly! 3. Sometimes, though you might hate it, it is necessary to give in to a fight that you may lose or that may risk your best friendships. It's good to sacrifice for one another. TO END/DEAL - 1. Have a talking session where you just pour what you're thinking and feeling out and listening to the other person as well. This increases understanding and trust between you two. 2. Give in. Apologize first. Take things easily and try not to get too angry. 3. Let it heal. If trying to help doesn't work just let time take its course and let the other person and you get over your anger. 4. Sometimes friendships can't be helped. If you were pulled into a bad one, you'll know it when you feel it. Try to repair things as best you can but sometimes these friendships can't be patched together and you go your separate ways, no hard feelings. Use these tips wisely. #4 on the end/deal list is last resort. Don't end a friendship without trying. And take time to consider if the friendship and the friend, what they are worth to you and to your time, and either make amends or decide that the line should fall at that argument. Good luck. :)